Parental Involvements Successes and Challenges in Promotion of Family Life Education
Abstract of Parental Involvements Successes and Challenges in Promotion of Family Life Education
This study sought to examine parental involvement, successes and challenges in the promotion of family life education.
A descriptive survey design was chosen to carry out the study. An instrument designed by the investigator was used to collect data for the study. One hundred and fifty subjects responded to the questionnaires given to them.
Data analysis involved the use of frequency counts, percentages and t-test statistical techniques. The results showed that parents’ involvement in family life education is a contributor to the promotion of the success of family life education, parents occupational status is a contributor to parents involvement in family life education, majority of the respondents are of the view that students may be successful academically despite adverse family conditions, parents either single parents or parents of intact homes know the importance of family life education and thus press for their children to achieve against all odds, but it was discovered from the research that parents from intact homes showed a greater interest in the up-bringing of their children than their counterparts from non-intact homes.
It was recommended that education with a clear understanding of the lives of their school families ought to encourage the emergence of a definition of parenting involvement which would recognize a broad array of parental behaviors intended to support academic success, there is the need to introduce and broaden traditional population education to includes topics such as reproductive health, the status of women intergenerational relationship, and problem solving skills in order to improve family and social welfare, efforts should be made by education stakeholders to ensure that most schools provide some form of sexuality education for adolescent and efforts should be made by non-governmental organization (NGO’s) to facilitate access to wide range of parenting information, services and support throughout the country.
Chapter One of Parental Involvements Successes and Challenges in Promotion of Family Life Education
INTRODUCTION
Background to the study
Preparing individuals and families for the roles and responsibilities of family living is nothing new. Because knowledge about human development, interpersonal relationships, and family living is not innate, societies have needed to develop ways through which they may transmit the wisdom and experience of family living from one generation to succeeding ones. Some societies transmit his knowledge through formal means such as puberty initiation rites. For the most part however, individuals learn about family living in the family setting itself as they observe and participate in family activities and interactions in their own and other families
As societies change and become more complex, this pattern of informal learning about living in families becomes inadequate.
The development of new knowledge, advances in technology, and changing social and economic condition create situation where the teaching of previous generation are no longer appropriate or sufficient. In this circumstance, societies must find or create new ways to prepare individuals for their family roles and responsibilities. One of these new ways is Family Life Education
Clark (2003) opines that when parents and family get personally involved in education, their children do better in school and grow up to be more successful in life. According to Clark, parent’s involvement includes a lot of different types of activities. Some parents have time to get involved in many ways; others may only have time for one or two activities.
Aluede (2000) contends that the earlier in a child educational process, parent involvement in family life education begins, the more powerful the effects. The most effective forms of parent involvement are those which engage parent in working directly with their children on learning at home. Parent may get involved in family life education by ensuring better school attendance by their children, increased motivation, and better self-esteem.
Although most parent do not to know how to help their children with their education with their guidance and support they may become increasingly involved in home learning activities and find themselves with opportunities to teach, to be models for and to guide their children. Parent participation in education was twice as predictive of academic success as family socio-economic status, Uwakwe (2000). When schools encourage children to the practice reading at home with parents the children make significant gains in reading achievement compared to those who only practice at school. The more intensely parent are involved, the more beneficial the achievement effects. Parent who read to their children, have books available, take trips, guide TV watching, and provide stimulating experiences contribute to student achievement. The more parents participate in family life education, in a sustained way, at every level-in advocacy, decision making and oversight roles and as home teachers- the better for children’s success.
The society depends primarily upon the family institution for the production of children who constitute young members of the society. Also, the family is seen as the primary agent of socialization where the norms and values of a society are internalized by the new members of the society that is children, teaching and behavioral pattern and ways of life. In addition, the family performs the functions of provision of basic necessity of life like food, shelter, clothing, education etc.
Arqqawal (1981) asserted that: “It is the home not the school that determines the quality of the direction of any child’s life, and that teacher’s works is fulfilled or destroyed by the operation, for good or ill this major factor in the education of any child.” (page 19)
Writers like Adeyemo (1998) and Akinboye (2000) have observed that children from unstable homes have less adaptability to school situation, less initiative and possess a less measure of emotional self-control. The anxiety level of home and the pattern of parental communication with children may affect learning. For instance, a child that is frequently upset over parent quarrels are at risks for lower levels of education achievement (Krohn and Bogan, 2001).
Infants whose parents lack warmth and stability and fail to provide educational stimulation (e.g teaching and child new words) are at risk of learning and emotional problems (Werner and Smith, 1992: 24). Infants who suffer from neglect may also be at risk of health and developmental problems (Kenpe and Goldbloom, 1997:312).
In a study of young people from low-income black homes with varying family structures,
Clark (1993) finds that parents of high academic achievers set firm but not harsh rules, seek information about their children’s academic progress, enhance literacy skills through activities such as reading and word games, and model an optimistic assertive approach to life. In Clark’s study, the two-parent and single-parent families that had these attributes produced higher achieving students, while the two-parent and single-parent families that lacked these characteristics produced less successful students. Similarly, Goldenberg (1999) describes how assertive parent involvement may significantly influence student achievement, over the course of Goldenberg’s case study, the children who improved their reading skill received encouragement and /or home tutoring from their parents.
Preparing individuals and families for the roles and responsibilities of family living is nothing new, because relationships, and family living is not innate, societies have needed to develop ways through which they may transit the wisdom and the experience of family living from one operation to succeeding ones. Some societies transmit this knowledge through formal means such as puberty or initiation rites. For most part, however individuals learn about family living in the family setting itself as they observe and participate in family activities and interaction in their own and other families (Aluede, 2002). As societies change and become more complex this pattern of informal learning in families becomes inadequate. The development of new knowledge, advances in technology and changing social and economic conditions create situation where the teaching of previous generations are no longer appropriate or sufficient, in these circumstances, societies must find or create new ways to prepare individuals for their family roles and responsibilities. One of these new ways is family life education (Alueze and Ikechukwu, 2002).
The desire that Nigeria should be a free, just and democratic society, a land full of opportunities for all its citizens, able to generate a great and dynamic economy, and growing into a united and self reliant nation, cannot be over-emphasized; to achieve these goals, education in Nigeria is an instrument par excellence for effective national development Federal Ministry of Education (2004). With changes in the society, every child desires to become a millionaire within a day. It now seems to be difficult for majority of the children to really concentrate on their studies in this country. Good community committee (1995) observed that the seed of academic under-achievement among children have been imbibed from childhood. Many children fail to find self-respect or self-discipline and capacity to cope with problems in ways that are constructive or have any appreciation on the importance of skills needed for learning. In other words, it seems to be true that the causes of academic-achievement among the youths are multiple, complex and interrelated. Good community committee (1995) and Schewertz (1995) identified single-parenthood, poverty, youth violent (crime), drug problem, school instability and rebellion as causes of children under-achievement in schools. Sewel (2000) include among many other reasons for students drop out as no liking school, being suspended or being expelled. Other reasons include economic reasons socio-economic status of the family. Influence from friends who are also school drop-outs, personal reasons such as pregnancy for girls. In addition, school drop-outs had lower grades in school, more disciplinary problems, and lower rate of home work completion externalized sense control. Often times, when children fail their promotion examinations, they would rather prefer going to farm and obtain or acquire plots of land to plant cocoa and become cocoa farmers. During cocoa season in such parts of South-West Nigeria, children and parents’ common slang is ‘Oga teacher, how much is your salary? Two kilos (Kilogrammes) of cocoa will pay your salary. This local syndrome might be responsible for students drop-out in many rural areas. The rate of drop out appears to be worst among boys with the emergence of commercial motor cycling known as Okada. Also, some boys become bus conductors or illegal timber contractor know as ‘Payabayaba’. According to Ayodele (2007), there was a case of a male student who was arrested for social ills (stealing) and during interrogation; he said that he dropped out from school because his school fees was not paid and his mother gave birth to nine children for different nine fathers. Ayodele says further that in the study of some female students, it revealed that when they fail in school or their fees were not paid, they seem to experience fear, anxiety, inferiority complex and guilt among their mates and this seems to give them some psychological problem. This leads female children to get involve in pre-marital sex and hurriedly get married.
Owuamanam (2002) contends that some people go into marriage when there is no money to pay school fees or take care of their children’s needs. Another problem observed to be rampant among female children is the issue of regular meeting. As soon as some female children see their drop-out friends with expensive wears and their babies, the next thing they do is to copy their colleagues so that they too can dress like friends and look nice among their peer groups, this usually results to termination of their academic career.
It seems that if parents were not educationally oriented, their interest towards the education of their children might be negatively affected. Adaba (2001) noted that parents do not encourage the education of their female children because of erroneous belief that investing money on the education of female children may end up to be waste when they get married because they lose family’s name and the husband’s family would reap the fruits of their labour. Adaba also said that some parents were unable to pay school fees and provide necessary materials needed by their wards and that this contribute to children’s under-achievement in schools. Alonge (2003) opined that some parents are harsh and wicked to their children if they do not perform well or fail their examinations.
In another development, if children do not have a stable family life and have bad school experiences, they may end up as school drop-outs.
The true influence of children’s background on achievement can be estimated better if one takes into account those family characteristics- parental values and press for the child to achieve and the child’s own efforts and perceived efficacy-that appear to operate independently of convectional aspects of class (for the few countries in which these factors have been studied) and better indicators of the material and social aspects of class.
The national desire that Nigeria should be a free, just and democratic society, a land full of opportunities for all its citizens able to generate a great and dynamic economy and growing into a united and self reliant nation, is an important pointer to the role education has to play in the polity. To achieve these goals, education in Nigeria is an instrument per excellence for effective national development, Federal Ministry of Education (2004). With changes in the society, every child desires to become a millionaire within a day. It now seems to be difficult for majority of the children to really concentrate on their studies in this country. Good community Committee (1995) observed that the seed of academic under-achievement among children have been imbibed from childhood. Many children fail to find self respect or self-discipline and capacity to cope with problems
This background emphasizes the need to bring into focus the present study which sought to explain parental involvement, successes and challenges in the promotion of family life education.